Taming the Cycle

The author and I share similar ideas about EFT and working with couples. Couples going through EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy) counseling report feeling they have a better handle on where they get off track and are able to catch themselves before they end up deep in a negative cycle. As they get further along in […]

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I’m done, I can’t do this any more

How did we get into yet another “stupid” argument? It’s like Groundhog Day…we keep circling around the same old stuff and we never get anywhere. We don’t know what to do, but this can’t go on. And we can start thinking, I’m done, I can’t do this any more. Sound familiar? In my world, there is […]

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Break the Cycle of Repetitive Thoughts

There are a few basic principles for learning how to open our stuck places and release the contradictions of the body of fear. The first of these principles is called Expanding the Field of Attention. A repeated difficulty will be predominantly felt in one of the four basic areas of mindfulness. It will come either […]

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